Do you want to get your ex boyfriend back? Has he left you for your best friend? While you may be conflicted between love and jealousy, you need to focus on what is really important. And that is to get your ex boyfriend back and away from the “other” girl.
First of all, you need to recognize why your ex would have decided to go out with your friend in the first place.
Some guys switch girls because their original girlfriend was lacking something they needed. If this is the case, you need to figure out what that is if you want to get your ex boyfriend back.
Some of the reasons girls lose their guy include not looking good, whining, and not having enough time for their man.
It is well known that men are more visual than women. One of the things they need in the women they love is attractiveness. If you have let yourself go, you are likely to lose your boyfriend as well.
Consider how you looked when your boyfriend first started going out with you. Did you keep your hair curled? Were your nails done right? Were you thinner? These things could all play a role in why you lost your boyfriend.
Another reason that you may be in the position where you need to get your ex boyfriend back is that you whine all of the time. Whining is a big turn off for guys. Whining is a childish act. Parents of toddlers are instructed on how to stop their young children from whining.
It is no more attractive in a teen ager than it is in a 3 year old. Your ex wants a contemporary not a child.
If whining is a problem for you, you need to learn to stop. You may have gotten your way in the past by whining, but in reality, it won’t get you what you want in the future. You have already lost your boyfriend this way.
A final reason why you might have lost your boyfriend to your best friend is that you simply didn’t have time for either of them. They may have been forced together when you didn’t show up for them. Their relationship started when they talked about you and then they started talking about “us”.
If this is the case, you need to be aware that your own interests must be balanced with the needs of the people in your life.
Teen agers today have busy lives. You may be involved with sports, extra-curricular activities, church, volunteering, tutoring, etc. But, if you don’t make time to develop relationships with your friends and your boyfriend you could lose them both.
If you want to get your ex boyfriend back when he has started dating your best friend, you will have to become the girl he asked out way back when.
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